Paul J. McMillan, Jr. lost his battle with brain cancer on Wednesday, July 11, 2012 surrounded by his loving family. He was 62.
Born in Philadelphia, he lived in Feasterville for the past 39 years. As a veteran of the Army, he proudly displayed his patriotism throughout his life. He retired from Rohm and Hass Chemical Company after 40 years of service as a Research Chemist.
He was proceeded in death by his parents, Paul J. McMillan and Dolores O’Melko McMillan-Gmitter.
Left behind to cherish his memory is his loving wife of 38 years, Mary Alice. He was the devoted father of Kelly A. Lange (Christopher) and Paul F. McMillan (Jodi). He was also the proud grandfather of Paul James, Brendan, and Gavin.
Family and friends are invited to call from 9:30am until 11:00am Tuesday, July 17, 2012 at St. Bede the Venerable Church, 1071 Holland Rd. Holland, PA 18966, where his funeral Mass will be celebrated at 11:00am. Interment will follow at Resurrection Cemetery Bensalem.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to the National Brain Tumor Society, 124 Watertown St., Suite 2D, Watertown, MA 02472.
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MaryAlice and Children, Tom and I have such lovely memories of Paul. What a tribute to be remembered as a kind and caring man. May you feel God's grace and comfort in this painful time. Eileen and Tom Whittle
Paul, you wiil be greatly missed by all, but we know you are in a better place free of pain and suffering. It was a pleasure to know and work with you. I am sure all your friends, family and new acquaintances in heavens are enjoying those "corny" jokes. Rest in peace. John
What's remarkable to me about all the posts above are that they paint such a consistent picture of Paul; a man whose life was marked by loving the Lord, his family and his country. A true gentleman, who valued working hard, being honest and also being kind. His sense of humor - priceless. All of these posts show a truly genuine man - who was the same at home, at work, and in his church family. What a blessing to know Paul and Mary Alice and see the way they faced this season of hardship together, as a team. What a joy to know that this is not the end - it's an interruption. Love and many blessings from the Bogan household
Kelly & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I/we can do to help ease your burdens, please, don't hesitate to let me/us know.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Christi & Brad
Our deepest sympathy to Mary Alice and family. We know that Paul will be sadly missed but always remembered for the wonderful person that he was. He will always live on through the memories that he left behind.
My prayers go to each of you during this difficult time. May our Lord wrap you in his mantle of peace. God bless you and keep you.
Mary Alice
We are very sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Prinz Family
Mary Alice, Buddy and Kelly,
So sorry for your loss.Paul was such a wonderful man. Loved his smile! May God richly bless you all with comfort, strength and peace.
Love,
Taryn
Our prayers are with you and your family that you will be comforted and feel God's loving presence.
"Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him." James 1:12
Mary Alice, you are in my thoughts and prayers, as you adjust to a life without Paul. It is rare to find a true love, the kind that you obviously shared. God only knows His plan for us. I keep trying to figure it out and failing miserably. What I do know is that we are all destined for a world beyond this one, a world where there is no suffering. God be with you till we meet someday in His kingdom.
Mary Alice, I was saddened to learn of Paul's passing, as I wasn't aware that he had made a turn for the worse. It's safe to say that I know a little of what you might be going through, but you were blessed beyond imagination to have had such a long and happy marriage and family together. May those amazing memories bring a smile to your face when you most need it, and may the embrace of our Heavenly father be felt always - you are indeed so loved.
Paul will be missed by so many! He was such a wonderful person. I was always so impressed that he helped in the Science lab at school. How many husbands would spend hours trapped with the 4th grade and still keep coming back. Now that truly was a first rate husband in my book!
Mary
Mary Alice, Kelly, & Buddy....It is so hard to put into words just how sorry I was when you told me that Paul was gone, I was really hoping for a miracle but I guess in some way there was a miracle because now he is in Heaven watching over all of you. Heaven really did get someone special!
It was an honor to have known you. You are going to be missed greatly. I am so thankful my daughter chose this family when she married Buddy. The whole family is a pleasure to be around. I'll always remember our vacation to Ocean City. What a wonderful time. Rest in peace Paul you deserve it. Love immy and Tammy
My heart and prayers go out for Paul and to your whole family. Paul was a very kind and special person and will truly be missed.
Dear Mary Alice,Kelly, Paul and your families,
Our hearts are broken for you. We know this pain and prayed you would never have to go through it. All I can tell you is allow yourself all the time you need. Take care of yourselves and most importantly, trust in God's love and mercy. He is walking this painful journey, holding you tightly. Paul is at peace. The pain, fear and suffering is over. God so loved him that he took him home. Let God and your friends and family help you now. People need to be there for you and you need to let them. I'll see you soon.
Love and Prayers, Patty Criniti
Dear Mary Alice, Kelly and Buddy,
We are so sorry for your loss. Paul was such an asset to our family. He always had a smile on his face and a kind word for everyone. He will be sorely missed by everyone. God Bless all of you.
All our love,
Anne and Bernie
Mary Alice,Buddy,and Kelly, My heart goes out to all of you and your families on the loss of Paul. He was such a great man. I will never forget the conversation we had at Kelly's wedding. He told me if he had to do this all over again, he would not change a thing in his life. I am sure he felt complete with the love of his family and friends. His suffering is now over and he is in a better place with Jesus. God bless all of you during this sorrowful time. Love, Loretta
Maybe God felt that Paul would be a good angel to watch over the others on earth and to give them extra spirit to enjoy their lives with their future. God speed, Paul! You watch over your family and give them the spirit that you showed in living here on earth.
I was privileged to have met Paul only a few times when he was in Ithaca visiting with Paul and Jodi. He was a wonderful person and he will be very sadly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with the McMillan family.
Dear Mary Alice ,
Paul fought hard, I'm very sad that he endured so much.
I will never forget his goodness towards me, I was glad to have known such a great man! May he be at peace now ! I know he misses you Mary Alice as you do him, but he will always live within your heart.
Our world lost a good person and Heaven has gained an Angel of peace. You will remain in my prayers always my friend. God Bless you and Your Family so so sorry for your loss.
A man who loved his wife like few men I have ever known. Thought his children were almost as cute as he was. A man with a wonderful sense of humor. Just three weeks ago he had me laughing until I had tears in my eyes. Last but certainly not least, a strong man who fought a really tough battle. That is who Paul McMillan is to me.
Paul was always special to our whole group. He went about his job quietly and efficiently. I always kidded him about being lucky to have the job that he had... but the truth is that we were lucky to have you, Paul. We all know that the Lord welcomed you with his choir of angels. Rest in the Peace that you so well deserve. Ray
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