To the Toft family, please know the huge impact Jerry and Pat had on our lives, if it were not for their kindness and your families acceptance the first years in America would have been scary and very lonely for Geraldine and I. Jerry and your Mom were such an instrumental part of our lives, and when we needed them most. I am so saddened for your loss but eternally grateful for the love they and your family shared with us during those first years. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers, sending love from my mom in kilgarvan to you and your family, please know how much your parents meant to us, my children know how important our host family was, sending love and prayers, Martina, Danny, Nicole, Daniel and Jessica.